How Do You Save A Marriage After Cheating?
Cheating on your spouse is undeniably the easiest and quickest way to destroy a marriage. Emotions are bound to run high. The spouse who has been cheated on feels hurt and angry, but most of all she feels betrayed. The spouse often feels victimized. The injured spouse has been hurt by the person she trusted the most. It will be difficult to trust that person again. Although it is difficult to re-build a marriage once it has been decimated by infidelity, it is not impossible. Talk to your spouse openly and honestly. Explain why you cheated. What were you thinking? Did you think about your spouse’s feelings? Your spouse may say that he doesn’t want to hear any explanation and may accuse you of making excuses, but he has the same questions running through his mind. In all actuality your spouse may need to hear your explanation. But if your spouse is not ready to hear what you have to say don’t force the issue. Drop it and wait until he is ready to listen. Trying to talk to your spouse whe