How Do You Prevent Being Shy At A New School?
Starting a new school can be intimidating even if you’re typically carefree and outgoing. Couple the unfamiliar environment with a tendency to be shy, however, and you’ll need to follow strategies to feel comfortable in class. Try these to fit in and make friends in no time. Be approachable and friendly. Although you may feel uncomfortable, keeping your nose buried in a book or wearing your iPod headphones during lunch may keep potential friends away because you appear standoffish. Make eye contact and smile at the kids who seem open and nice. Make small talk with students seated around you as you wait for your teacher to start class. Pick up on something like a photo or button on their backpack that reveals what band, sport team or celebrity they like. Use it as a conversation starter. Ask questions since most kids will think you’re fascinating even if you’re just a good listener. Join clubs, groups or charitable endeavors to meet other students that share the same interests. You’ll b