How Do You Negotiate Child Custody And Divorce?
Most judges prefer that couples negotiate child custody and divorce settlements outside of court rather than involving the legal system in the details of the separation. Effective negotiations require both parties to be calm, reasonable and willing to compromise. If you have a contested divorce or have difficulty negotiating with your spouse on your own, consider seeking professional mediation services. Because it is often difficult to look at child custody and divorce issues objectively, many couples find it useful to employ a neutral third party to assist in negotiating a settlement. Present your spouse with a written proposal. It is often easier to evaluate an offer when it is in writing. In lieu of lengthy discussions, draft a child custody and divorce agreement to use as starting point for your negotiation. Be reasonable in your requests. As you think about what you want from a divorce settlement and child custody agreement, assess whether you are being fair to your spouse. Decide
