How Do You Make And Keep Friends When Most People Suck?
I’m a married woman with lots of single male friends, and only some of them are gay. Some of them are interested in me, but to my knowledge none of them consider it seriously. Basically, they’ve never pressed anything or done anything problematic about it. Maybe you’ll check off this whole list and have just had terrible luck, but I hope some of these tips are helpful. 1. Do absolutely NOTHING to encourage their flirting with you or persuing you, because they can construe that as your being interested. It’s not even all that stupid of them to interpret things that way, married or not. Having a passing interest in you is no big deal. Things become problematic when getting with you seems like a possibility, because once they get it in their head that they can pursue you it becomes awkward and grating. My male friends absolutely make flirty sexual jokes about me, for example. Where I see some women go wrong is that they make the flirty sexual jokes back. Don’t do that, because they can ge
