How Do You Help Children After Divorce?
Divorce is hard on parents and their children. Remember, you have to help your children through this transition. Take time to explain to them what is happening and help them understand. Here are some ways to help children during and after divorce. Talk together: you, your spouse and the children. Keep the discussion simple and straightforward. Be honest and let them know that everyone is going to feel a little sad. Explain the situation. Help them understand as fully as possible what is going on and what is going to happen. Many children are confused and feel that the separation is somehow their fault. Explain the reasons for the divorce and reassure them that both parents still love them. Ask your children questions. Find out about their fears and concerns. Ask them how they see the situation; you’ll be surprised at how confused they can be. Put their minds at ease. Be aware of signs of distress. Children are not always candid about their feelings. They may begin acting out or falling
