How Do You Help An Adopted Older Child With Attachment?
Older adopted children often have the most trouble attaching to their new parents. This is usually because of the bad experiences they have had in their young lives and the inconsistent care they received from other adults. Taking the time to help your adopted older child attach will greatly benefit both you and him and will help you as you work to become a family. Remember that older adopted children usually take longer to attach because attachment may be more difficult for them than for babies. Older children usually have had several caregivers who have moved on for various reasons. At first, your older adopted child will probably expect that you will also leave her. During the first few days with your child, begin to establish routines so that he will know what to expect. Also give him responsibilities within the family such as specific chores or feeding the family pet. This will help him feel that he has a place in the family and that he belongs. Try to keep your schedule free at f
