How Do You Help An Adopted Baby With Attachment?
Facilitating attachment of a new child is important, even when you’re adopting a baby. While adopted babies may not truly remember their lives before adoption, there may be subtle impressions or small memories that cause them to be anxious or resist attachment. Taking steps early to help an adopted baby attach can result in a much happier and better adjusted child in the future. Begin by making sure that you are consistently meeting your baby’s needs. Respond quickly to cries and provide for the baby’s needs quickly. This will not spoil your baby; instead, it helps him to know that he can depend on you. Encourage closeness and bonding by holding, rocking and cuddling the baby as much as possible. Some parents use a sling or other carrier to keep baby close to them. Consider co-sleeping with your baby, or at least having her crib near your bed at night. This allows you to meet baby’s needs quickly during the night or simply soothe her with the sound of your voice. Do activities that enc
