How Do You Help A Teenager Cope With Divorce?
Over half the marriages in America end in divorce, leaving many troubled teens trying to resolve the issue. The transitional aspect of the teen years, going from childhood to adulthood contains enough problems without parents divorcing. Helping them through a family divorce stabilizes the transition when approached in the right manner. Confirm to the teenager that the divorce has nothing to do with him or her. If emotional issues arise, remain positive and loving. Help them understand the reasons for the family splitting. Discuss openly how the divorce affects everyone involved placing no blame on the teen, but listen and understand the issues she faces. Offer respectfully positive input about the ex-spouse, remembering the teen loves both parents; all the while working on getting along with the ex-spouse. Insure your continued financial support for the teen. The promises of a car or college remain viable issues through uncertain times and keeping your word for your teen’s future garne
