How Do You Help A Loved One Leave A Violent Relationship?
If someone close to you is in a violent relationship, you can help them escape. Follow these steps. Contact a crisis center in your area. In addition to giving you a contact number in the event of an emergency, a domestic violence center can offer valuable advice that may save your loved one’s life. Obtain a list of crisis centers nationwide at the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence Web site, or call (800) 799-SAFE (see Resources below). Explain to your loved one that the abuse is not his or her fault. It is common for a victim in a violent relationship to assume all the blame. Help your loved one understand that domestic violence is against the law. Explain that there is legal, emotional and financial help available. This may give the person the courage to leave. Ask your loved one to at least develop a sound safety plan, including an exit strategy, to escape domestic violence when it happens. Offer to help with transportation, child care or finances. Many people stay in vio
