How Do You Help A Lesbian Who Wants To Become Straight?
• Disclaimer: This is not a substitute for professional advice. You can only support a person, as a layperson and a friend. Under no circumstances is this intended to delve into the realm of professional therapy. • Verify that she is indeed a lesbian. Never assume somebody is a lesbian by the way she dress, the things she does, or the people she hangs around with. Let her bring up the topic. Don’t ask about her sexual orientation and whether she considers herself a lesbian. • If she admits that she is a lesbian, reassure her that there is absolutely nothing wrong with her. To be helpful, you must adopt a supportive and caring disposition. • Try to understand why she feels the way she does. Show empathy. Clarify what she means by “lesbian.” Does she mean having feelings toward members of the same sex, or actions, or perhaps a combination of both? Do not judge, especially at the beginning, or you will surely alienate her. Emphasize that you are not judging her in any way, but rather tryi
