How Do You Help A Girl Deal With Bullies?
Anyone who claims there are no differences between boys and girls obviously has pets or only one child. While boys and girls can and often do share similar strengths and weaknesses, they also have very different communication and interpersonal styles. Take bullying. When we think of bullies, we typically think of physical violence. Not so with girls. Girl bullies are subtle, manipulative and can be far more cruel than most boys. Listen fully and actively to your daughter. Knowing that she has a sympathetic ally in a safe haven such as home will give her strength. Avoid placing blame on your daughter by saying things like, “Well, if you didn’t want to get picked on, you shouldn’t have sat with them.” Girl bullies often manipulate circumstances to create opportunities in which they can target their victims. Ask your daughter what you can do to help. Some girls want their parents’ involvement. Other girls may defer, afraid that involving a parent will only draw more bullying attention fro
