How Do You Have A Discreet Affair?
We’re all human, and can be attracted to other people. But nobody wants to lose everything, and so an affair needs to be a discreet affair. Here’s what to do and what not to do: Do go slowly In any venture, you need to plan carefully. Be realistic – people’s feelings and your relationships are at stake. Are you certain that having an affair is what you want to do? Do you have a plan in case you are discovered? Should you leave your spouse? It might be better to ask for a divorce and enter into a new relationship without secrecy being necessary. This can let you feel freer. If you cannot leave your spouse and you must have an affair, do so carefully. The fact that you don’t want to leave your spouse might mean that you shouldn’t have an affair. Meet in places where friends and acquaintances probably will not go, or in places where your discreet affair looks like a business lunch or dinner. Do not involve others, though. Asking people to lie for you leaves you vulnerable to other people’
