How Do You Handle Problems With Stepchildren?
Being a stepparent is challenging. And it doesn’t help when your stepchildren are rebellious, mouthy and hate your guts. Before you pack your bags and run, try using these steps to handle problems with stepchildren. Never let stepchildren witness you and your spouse disagree about household rules or discipline. You should stick together when the kids are around and address any issues or objections that you have when they aren’t present. Let the biological parent handle the discipline whenever possible. There are times when stepparents have to enforce rules and administer discipline. But for the most part, it’s less stress on you, and easier for the children if they’re disciplined by the biological parent. Get the children into counseling. A counselor will give your stepchildren a constructive outlet to voice their feelings and work through them without the fear of being judged or reprimanded. Have realistic expectations. Don’t expect your stepchildren to feel an immediate connection to
