How Do You Handle A Prima Donna?
In the world of interpersonal relations, we all deal with the complexities of cooperation. Every once in awhile one pops up: a Prima Donna, a go-it-alone type, possibly with delusions of personal grandeur, a narcissist with no feelings for the needs of others, an attention-grabber hogging the limelight. The term prima donna, originally used in stage terminology, means just that: a look-out-for-number-one individual who feels his or her needs are above the needs of the community. Dealing with a prima donna involves intelligence, diplomacy, and patience. Be assertive. A prima donna will walk all over people he/she considers compliant. Stick up for yourself and others in situations where the prima donna tries to get the upper hand. Challenge the prima donna when necessary. In situations that involve a high level of cooperation, find specific talking points to go over that show a prima donna when he/she is being unreasonable. Involve the person in frank conversations about the role of each
