How Do You Find A Couples Counselor?
Let’s face it, being in a relationship can be tricky. Almost every couple can benefit from a little objective help now and then, to put the “relation” back in the “ship.” A skilled couples or family counselor can offer new approaches to making things work. The key is to find someone you and your partner both feel comfortable with. Sit down with your partner, if possible, and talk about what each of you expects to get out of counseling. Try to be specific about your goals and be considerate of each other’s wishes. Write them down if you feel it’s helpful. Get a professional referral or follow up on personal leads. (See How to Hire a Mental-Health Professional.) Use the Yellow Pages as a last resort. Contact therapists and ask about their qualifications, licensing, experience and education. If you have special issues (such as substance abuse, depression or anger management), ask about their experience in those areas. At your first meeting with the counselor, discuss what you and your par
