How Do You Figure Out The Best Way To Break Up With Someone?
It can be very hard to figure out the best way to break up with someone without hurting their feelings. Even though you may not want to be with that person anymore, you still want to spare them from being hurt any more than they have to be. Put yourself in their shoes. Think about how you would want someone to break up with you and what would leave you with the least amount of excess hurt. Sometimes trying to think about it from someone else’s perspective can maximize your empathy. Avoid delivering the news when you are still angry. This can easily lead to saying things that you don’t mean and the whole event blowing up into a large fight. Make sure that when you decide to tell the other person that your emotions have cooled down. Get to the point in a short amount of time. It’s hard on a person to hear someone drag on and on about how a relationship isn’t working when they basically know what you are going to say at the end. It’s kind of like pulling a bandage off slowly. Don’t be rud
