How Do You End A Controlling Or Manipulative Relationship?
• Don’t beat yourself up or consider yourself foolish. In recognizing your partner as controlling and manipulative, you must also recognize this: Though they can at first be charming, controlling and manipulative people are the unfortunate product of an incisive intellect and low self esteem. They are usually people who, at first blush, seem to be confident, charming and together. It’s no wonder you found him or her attractive. • Get to the point and don’t try to cushion the blow or beat around the bush. Your first instinct is to do it in person (not always advisable, but the honorable first choice) and try to hurt your partner as little as possible, but this may only result in prolonging his/her agony – and yours. Come right out and declare your decision frankly, without hostility or cruelty. S/he will likely be stunned and/or shocked, and may question, attempt to bargain, cry, or become enraged – all are possible reactions. Be prepared for anything. Make arrangements for a family men
