How Do You Decide Whether To Marry A Man With Children?
• Consider how you feel about children. If you have never had children, what is the reason for this? Did the opportunity simply pass you by or don’t you really want to have children? If you don’t want or don’t like children, this is already a warning signal – you will not be able to simply dismiss or ignore your intended’s kids, and you won’t be able to keep him away from his kids (at least, not if you’re smart). On the other hand, if you like children but the chance has never come up before, this is a positive sign. • Consider how your children will cope blending with a new family. If you have children of your own who still require your care, it is important to think through how you will facilitate their passage into a new family. It is important to let them spend time with your new man’s children, so that they can get to know one another. This will also allow you to observe how they get along, and it provides an opening for you to hold a conversation with them later. • Address any do
