How Do You Deal With Temper Tantrums From A Toddler?
I suppose we are born with an innate ability to throw a temper tantrum. Even without seeing the behavior modeled, most kids seem to figure it out on their own anyway. If left unchecked, the behavior may not ever be outgrown. (If you have ever seen a fit of road-rage, you’ll understand what I mean.) If you are facing the wrath of a two-year-old on a regular basis and are looking for some help, try the following steps that come from my experience as a full-time elementary school teacher and see if you notice a difference in your little one. Do not model or mock the undesired behavior. This is a common mistake. We have seen it, and we have experienced it being directed at us all of our lives, but it doesn’t work. Don’t ever yell at your child, or try to compete for control of the situation by raising your voice or losing conrtol of yourself. Don’t replicate or mock your child’s behavior either. Always treat them with love, kindness and respect. You can do that AND be firm at the same time
