How Do You Deal With Disrespectful Children?
• Find the source of the problem. This is the hardest part. There are many, many things that could lead to them being disrespectful. • Is it just their age or stage? Are they teenagers? If they are in that crazy time in their life, it’s common that teens will snap at their parents and use “shut up” at least four times a day. Are they toddlers? They are called the “Terrible Twos” for a reason. This is when they are learning “NO!” and “THAT’S MINE!” It’s more difficult to help a very young child with their attitude, because they aren’t as mature and can’t process things as easily. • Are you treating them with respect? Carefully examine your own behavior. Do you yell at them, or tell them to shut up or say that they’re stupid? While that’s not good in general, it teaches your kids that it’s okay to act that way as well. If you’re going to snap at your kids, it’s only karma for them to get right back at you. • Communicate. If you find the source of the problem, improve it! Teenager? While
