How Do You Deal With A Controlling Mother?
• Understand that your mom may be trying to instill responsible behavior. • Understand that everyone is responsible for themselves. • Understand that everyone is responsible for the consequence of their own actions. • Show your mom that you are responsible. • Show your mom that you are capable of making good decisions for yourself. • Examine your behavior more closely by making a list. • Make one column for your undesired behavior. • Make another column for the desired behavior. • Write down the undesired behavior when your mother mentions it. • Write down a more desired behavior. • Practice the desired behavior. • Re-establish your priorities: • Spend less time hanging out or partying with your friends. • Spend less time on the computer and more time with your studies. • Arise early and work throughout the day to establish a good work ethic. • Take on new chores around the house. • Find a part-time job. • Buy you own necessities to show your mom you can be more independent. • Purchase
