How Do You Date An Older Guy?
• Call him no more than once a day. If you call him and talk for a little while, then he says he has to go…let him. Tell him to call you back later, or ask him if he wants you to call him back. If he says to call him back, ask for a time. Then call 15 to 30 minutes after that time. You don’t want it to seem like you’ve been watching the clock, waiting for 6:00:00 to roll around. • Be considerate of his time – don’t monopolize it! Say he goes to school, like college, and works nights, don’t try to talk to him for that hour of available time every day. He has other friends he needs to talk to. Limit it to every other day, or maybe every three days, if he doesn’t have much time. • Give him his guy-time. If he has plans with anyone else, don’t invite yourself along. Maybe jokingly ask, “Are you trying to ask me out?”, and if he shrugs it off at all or, kind of, seems like he would rather not, just wait for another night. Save the messing around until AFTER you get to know him. Having sex
