How Do You Communicate Effectively With Troubled Teens?
Talking with teenagers can be a challenge. Parents and guardians of teens often find themselves at their wits end trying to get their point across-especially when guidance and discipline is required. This article provides some insight into some communication approaches that might make talking to teens a little easier when they get into undesirable situations. TALK TO THEM WHEN THEY ARE READY TO TALK (if it can wait). When teens get into trouble of some sort, they often expect to get a lecture. So, the moment that you say, “We need to talk”, they begin to shut down. You may be able to communicate in a much more effective way if your teen isn’t “huffy and puffy”. So, try saying, “We need to talk about this. Let me know when you’re ready”. Try to get them to at least agree that talking is necessary before letting them completely off the hook. After the initial shock of getting out of the lecture, your teen may actually come to you later ready to talk. RESIST THE DESIRE TO MAKE EVERYTHING
