How Do You Comfort A Friend Who Has Lost A Loved One?
If you’ve ever known someone who is suffering from great loss, whether it be from the death of a pet or significant person, or from a failed relationship, you know how hard it can be to know what to do or what to say. What does a grieving friend really need? The answer may be simpler than you think! Just be there. It’s not necessary to know the “right” thing to say. When a person is mourning, they often don’t even hear the kind words of sympathy, but do feel the comfort of a compassionate hug. A friend who has lost someone may feel overwhelming loneliness, and it does wonders to offer quiet companionship and a shoulder to cry on. Try not to offer advice, unless it’s asked for. Your friend needs time to sort out the new dynamics of their world. Someone who’s grieving typically feels numb and confused, and has to let the situation settle in before making too many decisions about the future. If they need advice, they will ask. Be available to help with whatever needs doing. There’s always
