How Do You Build Rapport With A New Boyfriends Father?
If you are meeting your new boyfriend’s father for the first time, be on your best behavior. You do not want to show up dressed suggestively, nor do you want to appear stiff and formal (i.e., boring).Realize what an opportunity this is: Meeting your boyfriend’s father is a way to see what your boyfriend might be like 25 to 35 years from now. While they are distinct individuals, every son will have some similarities to his father in mannerisms and habits, as well as the obvious medical history. Do not show up with a clipboard and white lab coat. While this is a chance to catch a glimpse into the future (were you to become serious with your boyfriend), do not announce this fact. You can be a stealth Margaret Mead, being very observant of how members of your boyfriend’s tribe behave and if you will be comfortable in it. Dress the part. You are not 16 anymore (unless, in fact, you are). Dress in an age-appropriate way. Conceal your cleavage, midriff and backside unless you have agreed to m
