How Do You Be An Effective Listener?
Being a good listener is one of the best ways to understand someone. It also is vital to building strong friendships. First give undivided attention to the person who is talk. This means no multi-tasking. Face the speaker and look at him/her attentively in the eyes Do not let your eyes move around the room constantly or stare at the clock- this shows a lack of interest Show that you are paying attention by nodding occasionally Provide feedback by saying “I see” or asking questions relevant to what they are saying React to the conversation with facial expressions to demonstrate that you understand and are following what they are saying. This will encourage them to continue to talk and explain themselves. Wait when they become silent to let them collect their thoughts. This also gives you time to collect your thoughts and fully analyze what they have said. Additionally it gives the impression that you were listening to them, not just sitting there waiting for a chance to break in or thin
