How Do You Answer Questions About Adoption?
If you’re in the process of adopting a child or already have a family with an adopted child, you’re probably facing questions from strangers, relatives, friends and your child. Preparing to answer difficult questions about adoption allows you to set boundaries on what details you’re willing to reveal, diffuse awkward situations and, above all, affirm your adopted child’s place in your family. Remember that others’ questions are probably based in curiosity rather than the intention to hurt your feelings or demean your family. Negative attitudes and ignorance still surround the adoption process, and the best way for you to support your adopted child is to respond gracefully even to seemingly impertinent questions. Use others’ questions to include all of your children–so the adopted child is not singled out–and to express your happiness about the state of your family. You don’t need to provide answers to every question someone asks you about any area of your life, including your family
