How do we recognize an abusive relationship where no physical violence is taking place?
It is difficult to accept that abuse can take place in ways other than physical, yet the majority of the abuse that occurs is not physical. Mental and emotional abuse is far more common and far more acceptable to too many people. Part of the problem in accepting that abuse is common is in realizing that a person close to us is capable of imparting abuse of any kind. Part of the problem is that we dont want to admit that the person is doing or acting as they are. Part of the problem is our own insecurity in confronting any from of abuse, be it a quick statement that hurts terribly, or be it a long tirade that reduces us to tears and self-doubt. Abusive words cut deeply into the psyche. Abusive actions cut into the physical and our bodies have the capability of recovering and healing. Physical healing is almost an automatic process. Yes, we may need medication and treatment, but then the bodys natural resources take over and the injury is healed. Abusive words enter the mind of the recei
