How do I tell work about my relationship with colleague?
I think that the longer you keep it a secret the more difficult the situation will become. It will be best to probably declare it now. If your female colleagues are going to alienate you then they aren’t worth your time worrying about. If things become too out of hand then surely there should be someone at work to talk to professionally about it. Just try not to worry too much about what all the other female colleagues say because it will be pure jealousy. Try to focus on the guy you love, he should be more important rather then the colleagues you have around you, and if your not at the office they shouldn’t be a bother anyway! Hope I helped!