How do i tell my boyfriend i love him but im not in love with him?
It might develop in time, this deepening love. The thing is to tell him mature love is not sex or kissing. It is real best friends over time, caring, sharing emotional support, non- judgemental, being there for the other, encouragement to be all you can be, etc. and it must go both ways. It takes time for this to happen in a mature way. Great kissing and feeling touching is NOT love, It’s just attraction and chemistry which can develop along with the heart opening. The divorce rate is out of sight in the USA. People don’t know what mature love is. The thing is it could be you need to develop the ability to volunteer and give of yourself. If you help him, are there for him, and he accepts the support and help, and visa versa, you will feel validated by him and he you, and feel worthy of being loved. All the attention someone pays you is flattery, but putting someone on a pedestal this early on is not mature love. Say you want It to blossom into that. If in a year or two things are going
