How do i tell future sister in law i wont find a bidesmaid dress to fit her?
Frankly, there are other issues with her pregnancy as well. At seven months, she may not be well enough to do what she needs to do as a bridesmaid. Bridesmaids must be on their feet for an extended period of time: Decorating, preparing, helping the bride and family, posing for pictures, dancing, etc. She may do just fine; but it’s also possible that she may not be up to it. I think you should discuss this frankly with your SIL. Tell her that you’re concerned about her health and the health of her baby. Right now, she’s still basking in the happiness of her pregnancy. I’m sure she hasn’t even stopped to think about it. Once she does, she may just choose not to stand with you. Have a great wedding.
She herself must surely be aware that she is going to be a bigger size by the time the wedding comes around. Take her along to the dress shopping trip and then you can ask the shop staff about their larger sizes, at least then she will know that you are trying to include her and make allowances for her changing shape.
to be honest it would be sensible to leave her dress until nearer the time,tell the dress shop that one of you bridesmaids will be 7 months pregnant at the time of the wedding and they can advise you on what would be the best course of action re the dress,some shops will alter the dress just before the big day so they can get the perfect fit. also talk to her hun,im sure she would be upset to think you are worrying so much about it,she knows how big shes gonna get and may be thinking the same as you and be worried to tell you. all those telling you she should bow out of being your bridesmaid are being a little harsh,she only pregnant not ill. im sure no one will be looking at her all day,your the bride and you will be centre of attention. best wishes for your big day.
