How do I overcome bad qualities such as fear, lust, revenge, greed?
These things you mention are one side of a coin. There are not necessarily bad or good. What you do with the feelings is what matters. It is not wrong to be attracted to another. Dwelling on someone, especially if they are unavailable (i.e. married) can be a problem. But without lust, you will find the species won’t last that long. The point here is to remember that there is more than one beautiful person out there; so if one doesn’t work out, go find another. Enjoy without dwelling on it. The human body is a work of art to be admired. Just don’t lose your mind with it. Again, a similar situation with revenge. It’s not a bad thing to be angry at a person, especially if they did you wrong in some way. But “getting them back” doesn’t fix the problem itself. If it bothers you so much that you are dwelling on the anger, than talk to them about it. They cannot fix what they don’t know about. Work on ways to make sure what offended you does not happen again in the future. Express feelings if
Fear can be conquered by doing everything that you are afraid of. Revenge can be avoided by controlling your anger and ego. Greed is simple to avoid. Just balance your desire to show off with your ability to earn enough money to fulfill all your obligations. Lust is the hardest negative behavior to eliminate and I’m still working on the answer for that one.
