How do i manage my abstinence between such conflicting expectations of her?
Answer Hello Vijay! Nice to meet you. I will paraphrase my understanding of your questions below and do my best to answer them. Q: I want to be abstinent because I’m avoiding adultery. Is this a sensible reason to try attaining abstinence? A: It is a sensible reason, but it is only one of many, more important reasons. 1. Abstinence from all unnatural emission of semen (including masturbation and viewing porn) will immediately improve your health. 2. For many, after a year or so, success comes to you very visibly through your career channel, bolstering your bank account and improving your mood. 3. Perhaps after another year, you’ll even start to have more fame – a very good name in society, articles in the newspaper, people calling you to interview you etc. These are broadly what I would call “blessings”. Much of these come from you saving a lot of time and energy and putting time and energy into your work, cleaning up, organizing, and hobbies. But through this process you’ll understand
