How do I make a best man toast to the bridesmaids without sounding cheesy?
It’s traditionally the groom who makes the toast to the bridesmaids, and the best man answers on their behalf. If the Maid of Honor is making a speech, she’ll probably reply to the groom herself, so you won’t need to do it. If in doubt, check with the bride and groom who is toasting whom – as the final speaker, you don’t want to look stupid by proposing a toast that’s already been made. If you do find yourself having to propose a toast to the bridesmaids first think of something genuine to say. Do they look lovely? Have they been a great help and support to the bride during the wedding preparations? Whatever comment you choose to make – and please don’t make it a sexist one – it’s the way that you say it which will determine whether your sound like a sleazy gameshow host or a genuine friend of the family. Once you’ve decided on something to say, practice saying your toast in several different ways. You may want to record yourself so you can hear what other people will hear, or ask a tr
