How do i hide the fact im desperate for a kid from my date?
Theres a woman next door to me like you – after 3 weeks she has them in her garden pegging out her clothes, carrying bin bags around and doing all the housework and DIY jobs that years of being alone has accumulated. She also tells them of her plan to become a mother before its too late. Funnily enough they all leave her after living with her for 3 weeks too. Except this recent one – the only thing I see different is that she accepted that she may never have kids – she treated him like a partner and not a sex object, a slave and a means to an end. She does the chores and he helps her with them – without being told to do it – after 6 months together they say that they are getting married and ‘if’ she gets pregnant then great, if not they will try to adopt. Another one – my friends mum got pregnant by a married man so she could leave the army – brought up the kid begrudgingly alone and now wonders why he hates her and never visits. She is bitter and alone. Learn from these women – using
