How do I help my unemployed, angry, depressed boyfriend?
I’ve dealt with this before. Your boyfriend is using his “dream job” to be lazy. He has his mind set on this media job and now he won’t “settle”. It’s an easy out and he’s taken you along on his selfish journey. The problem is that you’re taking care of him and that is very convienent and he will continue to take advantage of you. There is NOTHING you can do to change him. This is NOT your responsibility, it’s his. If he was a true man, he would take any job that would help support the two of you and contribute to the relationship and continue to search for his dream job in the meantime (which I guarantee is a pipe dream that will never happen). It’s a proven fact that if you apply for 10 jobs (with sincerity), you will get 1 job offer. You sound very co-dependent and that’s probably what drew you to him in the first place. It’s up to you how long you’re going to put up with it — the choice is yours. If it were me, I would tell him that you understand he has a goal in mind for his car
