How do I get rid of/control sexual thoughts when Im around my girlfriend?
I think you just need to tell her this. Explain that, in a relationship, you think there should be a sexual component. But three years, you’re that age, and you haven’t seen her naked? Honestly – wow. You are a great guy for holding out that long when she wasn’t interested! Sometimes I think my boyfriend and I took it slow, but we’ve only been dating for just over three years and we were over that like a year and a half ago. Wow, wow, wow! Basically you need to talk to her. I couldn’t imagine a romantic relationship without the sexual part, at least once it turns serious, which you two obviously are. Do you kiss? Do you make out? Does it just not go further than that? Ask her if you could just try a bit more, and see if she likes it. Tell her that you would like it to go further and that you think she might like it if she tried it. Also, maybe she had a bad experience that she is too ashamed to tell you. I have a friend who got raped when she was younger. She didn’t tell me, her best f
