How do i fix my marriage?
First of all, I commend you for saying you want to make it last forever – i’m SICK of seeing everyone’s first option in trouble being divorce. What happened to vows, for better and worse? Marriage is a lifelong commitment and I applaud you for sticking by it, never change that attitude. First step though, go to counseling. If she won’t go with, then you can go by yourself. When you start to change, she might warm up to the idea. It is a huge investment in your marriage, and don’t wait until the situation is critical to go. Other than that, we need to look at the root issues. She probably likes to go out at night because she might not be getting the love and attention she needs at home, and forcing anything upon her is just making it worse. Have a serious talk with her, tell her that you want to change into the husband she needs. Tell her that you’re going to go to counseling, and you would like her to join. Ask her what she feels the main issues are, and make sure to write them down. M
