How Do I Fix My Broken Friendship With The Girl Of My Dreams?
Your friendship is not a radiator hose with a pinhole leak. In other words, getting some duct tape and taping over the problem isn’t going to solve anything since the problem (your feelings, her feelings, and what they imply) are at the root of your friendship. If you could have denied those feelings to begin with, you wouldn’t have had this problem and you’d still be friends. She obviously isn’t ready or doesn’t want to return those feelings, so the very reason you want to get back together with her is already eliminating any possible reason why she should get back together with you. If she’s insecure in her feelings, giving her space so that she can explore those feelings by herself, without worrying about yours (that a friendship would entail) shows that you respect and care enough for her to actually be able to do that. If you can’t, if your feelings are too strong, then you’re not ready to allow room for her feelings which gives her plenty of reason to stay the hell away from you.
