How do I dump my boyfriend without shattering his heart?
Clearly there seems to be a commmunication problem going on in this relationship, and its not on his part it’s yours witholding honesty and not being authethentic. your in a relationship physicaly yet your not in it spiritually, this has resulted in you being pasive in your answers, motivated from your issues that you have decided is “the truth” about him, and thereafter invalidating him as a person as he doesnt fit your subconsciouss list of pictures of what you have decided your “Mr. Right ” should be! I’ts you with the issue not him, given you have said how wonderfull he is, personally i think he should do him self a favour and dump you for being inauthentic, manipulative and controlling!
