How Do I Breakup A Long Distance Relationship When He Still Loves Me?
I don’t know how often you two talk, but maybe the best way to go about this would be to write a long, heartfelt letter that explains everything you want to say, but are too frightened to say on the phone or to his face. Sit down with a cup of tea/coffee, and just write down all of your feelings. That way you know you’ll have expressed yourself eloquently and completely, and you won’t have the pressure of hearing what he thinks immediately after. It’ll give you time to think of what exact words you want to say to him, and when he reads it he can reread it as many times as he needs to fully understand how you feel. If you’re worried about giving the promise ring back to him, you could even put it in the envelope. By writing it all down, it’s not only therapeutic for expressing yourself, but you’ll be able to say exactly what you want and won’t be under pressure. It’s a lot easier, but also more eloquent and thoughtful this way. I really hope this helps, and I wish you luck. Ending a rel
Breaking with someone is never easy, but you have to do it. It’s good it’s a long distance relationship so you have a lot of buffer between you 2. Just don’t do it by email or texting, tell him over the phone. You can make it easier for him by telling him how good he is, but unfortunately fete is not bringing you together, and he deserves someone better than yourself.
It won’t be easy but one option is to just be honest…tell him that you feel like you have grown apart or that the long distance thing just is not working for you anymore….or you could handle it kinda nice and tell him that you just want to see other people because you are so lonely all the time…After you start seeing other people it will be easy from there for the relationship to naturally run its coarse…stop taking his calls as often and over time become less and less avalible to him..Or you could be really kinda mean and just stop taking his calls as often….act differently from the girl he loves… Be totally bored with him and his conversation…crack jokes about hi,…maybe have a guy friend answer your phone sometime…whatever it takes to make him break up with you.as far as the ring goes..put it up for now…at some point if things sour and he askes for it back send it to him…
