How do birth mothers feel after a placement?
After a placement, there is a natural period of grieving. This is normal. You will need some time to heal. At this time, you are a mother with empty arms. You need the support of family and friends. A counselor can also help you through this difficult period. Adoption is not something you “get over” and it can be difficult to hear comments along those lines from well-meaning friends. You have just given birth and, aside from the hormonal swings, you are grieving for your child. Time does help to heal and you should try to rest and recover. We are always here to listen and to refer you for the necessary counseling.
