How can I stop getting so angry when my 2 year old sister has her tantrums?
Toddlers don’t like to be told no, because at this age they are trying their hardest to be independent and all you are doing is trying to keep her safe. Simply say no calmly, I know it’s hard when I child is screaming loudly and acting obnoxious, but you just have to tell yourself that they don’t know any better. But you do. You know know how to behave and you realize that there is a problem with your behavior. When she sees you get upset and or hurt her she thinks it’s ok for her to act the same way and it’s not. Just calmly say no, remove her from temptation or remove temptation from her and find her something to play with that’s safe and fun. If you say no, take her away from her desire that she can’t have, give her a toy and walk away she will eventually learn that throwing a tantrum doesn’t get her what she wants. If you respond to her tantrum you’re just giving her attention that isn’t needed. Walking away when she’s having a tantrum or just simply going about your business aroun
