How can I stay safe after leaving an abusive relationship?
If you leave because of domestic abuse, you may not want people to know the reason you left. It is your decision whether or not you tell people that you have suffered domestic abuse – but if you believe you could still be at risk, it might increase your safety if you tell your family and friends, your children’s school and your employer or a colleague what is happening so that they do not inadvertently give information to the perpetrator. They will also be more prepared and better able to help you in an emergency. If you have left home but are staying in the same town or area, these are some of the ways in which you might be able to increase your safety: – Try not to place yourself in a vulnerable position or isolate yourself – Try to avoid any places, such as shops, banks and cafes that you used to use before you left – Try to alter your routine as much as you can – If you have any regular appointments that the perpetrator knows about i.e. with a counsellor or health practitioner, try
