How can i spice my Love Life up?
First of all, I don’t think you are being selfish. Also, I know from personal experience that TTC puts a huge damper on a sex life. It’s so stressful. I’m 21, my husband is 25. We have been trying just over a year as well without success. I would have to say that in December and January we had a horrible sex life. So this is what I did…First of all, I put all the ovulation tests and pregnancy tests away. I tried to avoid them, but I made certain that he doesn’t see them. I completely quit talking about TTC. I wouldn’t say a word about when I was ovulating, and I vented to all the ladies on this website. I had a long talk with my hubby about how I didn’t want to feel boring or unattractive, so I would initiate sex and then do something completely different, like angling my body different even. One thing we did, (TMI alert) is that we have these pipes running across our ceiling (we live in a basement apartment) and I would hang from the pipes and straddle him. I also tried changing the
