How can I get pregnant whilst using condoms?
Okay this is a wrong thing to do and I’m not condoning it at all, but some people perhaps don’t understand why you feel the need to do this. I know my aunt had a miscarriage and her husband didn’t want to try again for a couple of years and did the same thing because she longed for a baby so much. Seriously though, talk to your partner. He would be a father and it’s a big decision to make and not one that you can take alone. If you are intent on doing this, at least try to do it convincingly – don’t get caught with pinpricks. Oil lubes will destroy the latex but make sperm have a harder job swimming. The best bet would to start taking the pill (and actually take it for a few months, when you stop taking it feign illness and vomiting whilst he’s away so you have an excuse for why it failed. Please consider your actions.