How can i forget bad things which have happened in the past but may carry on further if?
I say that if whatever you’ve done is bad, which it clearly is, these people may tell others about what’s happened, particularly if it affected anyone. If it was just a drunken one off with no serious repercussions, then you’re lucky. You can move on by getting closure. Accepting what you did was wrong and knowing that you feel truly sorry for it. I’m sorry I can’t help more, but knowing what it is would help us to answer you.
We ALL do stupid things! Especially as young people. The shame and embarassment dont go away fast but you need to find a way to forgive yourself. Try this…did you learn something with the regretable situation? Yes than it was valuable…take that lesson and live it. This could be a character building experience. Now…you learned something and it’s over, never to be repeated again. So forgive yourself. Really dear….everyone does stupid stuff and regrets it. If you are a religious person make a date to ask God to forgive you. Have a long conversation with Him…tell Him how you got to this place of regret and that you need His help to forgive yourself and move on. People do this and it works. You may always remember it but you dont have to stress over it – if you have forgiven yourself.
