How can I break up with my long time girlfriend and potential fiance?
Break. Up. Now. But you knew that already, didn’t you? Frequently, people ask these questions so they can get reassurance that they’re doing the right thing. Well, if you break up with her, you are. This comes from one who has been in your situation. Yeah, I loved her, we had a great time together, and she was ready to say yes if I asked. She was dependent on me, she was clingy and needy, and she didn’t have a strong support system. I broke up with her because I just knew it wasn’t right. Smartest thing I ever did. She had a really tough time of it for awhile, and then she got better and now we’re friends, and she’s engaged. It works out in the end. Your girlfriend will survive. It’ll suck, but she’ll live. Look. You have a responsibility to her to break up with her if you aren’t into it. Otherwise, you’re cheating her out of being with someone who can give her what she needs and who will be fully present in the relationship. This is something I never understood when I was in my early
