How can i become COLD HEARTED?
It isn’t really that cold-hearted people are completely cold. Most of them are just focused entirely on something else. For example: If someone wanted to be an Olympic gymnast, their days would be spent at the gym training. The sport would be on their mind. Somehow she meets a guy, the guy later dumps her. Most of this is meaningless to her because the sport is more important than silly dating things. However, if she broke her leg 2 weeks before the summer Olympics, she would be completely devastated. Just transfer your passion from people to something else. The stereotypical billionaire is cold-hearted because he only cares about money. Only care about something that is less likely to hurt you and you can be cold-hearted too.
It’s hard to know what you mean by cold hearted. I think you just want to be more honest, and maybe reserved. Honest meaning you tell people what you are thinking without being overly cautious about what they think of you. Reserved by meaning you don’t put yourself out for people to pick apart or play with you easily. You also should learn how to walk away from situations that make you feel uncomfortable. I think cold hearted refers to people being mean to others and never opening themselves up, so if that is what you want then you might end up getting hurt back because people don’t like those who are mean. If you never want to open yourself up again, then just be alone. You need to learn how to watch out for your own happiness, this is most important.
