How can I be a nicer person?
It’s difficult to know without knowing what kind of erson you see yourself as just now, and what kind of person others see you as. Some quick generalisations for you. Give more (not necessarily money, but your time, expertise, etc.) without expecting anything back. They say it is its own reward. Accept that people will, from time to time, criticise you. The criticism is not always positive, and not always justified, but you can still learn and create a positive effect from it. Turn the other cheek. This does not mean you shouldn’t fight back, but rather bend with the prevailing wind, like a willow. The time will come naturally when you can retaliate if you want, and revenge has always been a dish best served cold. Listen to what others are saying, and hear it as well. Don’t throw ideas away out of hand, because there may be a nugget of brilliance in there, so pay attentin to everyone you meet. They deserve that much, even if no more than that. And because you’re quite young here’s a sn
